i'm currently in a Greek Mythology class, and i've been learning about heroes. according to Joseph Campbell, the journey of hero includes removing him/herself from their comfort zone, encountering challenges/triumphs, and returning home wiser/stronger.
i don't know about anyone else, but i do that myself. its a huge part of growth, in my opinion. and it all ties into enjoying your own company, or at least learning to. there are times when i just feel like i need to get away from everything and everyone and just be alone to ponder, explore, learn, grow, and mature. and when i come back around i'm wiser, stronger, happier, and in a better state of mind. its healthy, normal.
but here is my question - why does everyone expect us to let them know when this is happening? it's a very personal thing that happens when you grow mentally/spiritually. not only are you building a better relationship with yourself, you are becoming more connected with LIFE; with God (or whatever higher being you believe in), nature, your surroundings. i personally don't feel like i need to send a mass text to everyone that says "HEY GUYS, JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW I'M GOING TO BE QUIET FOR HOWEVER LONG BECAUSE I HAVE SOME PERSONAL GROWTH TO DO." it's really nobody's business, and we don't have to explain ourselves to anyone.
with all of that said, try to take a look at the people in your life in a different light. everyone has their own issues to work out and get through. stop asking questions, let them come to you if they want. and by continuing to pry, you are pushing that person away from you. SOMETIMES YOU JUST AREN'T NEEDED.
have a great day.
